THERAPY FOR grief & loss IN RENO, NV

Helping you navigate loss, stay connected to what matters, and find meaning in what comes next.

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“I don’t know how I’m supposed to move forward.


Maybe this is the most painful thing you've ever experienced. Your world feels unrecognizable. The dark clouds follow you everywhere, and some days it takes everything you have just to get through the day. The life you knew is gone, and you're not sure who you are without the person, relationship, or future you've lost. Everywhere you go, and everything you do reminds you of what has changed.

You may feel angry, heartbroken, numb, overwhelmed, disconnected, or completely exhausted from carrying so much pain. Everyone around you seems to expect you to be doing better by now, but you're left wondering: How? How can life feel good again? How am I supposed to keep going when I've lost so much?

And sometimes, this loss doesn't come alone. It opens the door to every other loss or pain you've ever experienced before this—bringing emotions to the surface that have been waiting years to be felt.

You don’t need to leave your grief behind.

We’re doing the work of understanding how to carry your love forward.


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Grief has many faces.

Most people think of grief as something that happens after a death. But grief can step into the picture anytime we lose someone, something, or some version of life that mattered deeply to us.

You may be grieving:

  • The death of a loved one

  • A divorce or significant relationship ending

  • A betrayal that changed everything

  • A major life transition

  • Family estrangement

  • The loss of a dream, identity, or future you imagined

  • Changes in health, ability, or circumstances

Grief is not a reflection of weakness.

It's a reflection of love, attachment, hope, and the significance of what was lost.


My Approach

I believe grief and loss deserve to be honored, not rushed.

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When we first begin working together, my focus is on understanding your story, your loss, and the unique relationship you have with your grief. We move slowly and intentionally, creating a space where you feel supported enough to bring all of yourself into the room—the heartbreak, the anger, the confusion, the love, and everything in between.

As trust develops, we'll begin exploring what your grief is asking of you. We'll make space for the emotions, memories, questions, and experiences that arise while helping you build the capacity to stay connected to yourself through them. Depending on your needs, I may incorporate EMDR, Somatic Therapy, mindfulness, meditation, nervous system work, and holistic or psycho-spiritual approaches to support healing on emotional, physical, and spiritual levels.

This work isn't about "moving on."

Instead, we focus on how to carry your grief while remaining connected to yourself, your life, and the love that still exists beneath the pain. One of the greatest fears many grieving people carry is the fear of losing their connection to the person they love. But healing does not require you to leave that relationship behind. In fact, many people find that grief becomes less about letting go and more about discovering a new way of staying connected.

Together, we'll create space to honor your loved one, explore the bond that continues to live within you, and find meaningful ways to carry that forward.

Therapy for grief & loss can help you…

Feel more able to access and move through your emotions


Learn how to carry your grief without feeling consumed by it


Develop a greater capacity for both pain and joy

Feel more connected to yourself and your inner wisdom



Build a different relationship with the person or life you've lost


Give yourself more grace and compassion

Embrace your own spirituality and find meaning within the chaos



Learn how to ask for support and lean into community

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There is no “right” way to grieve.

There is only your way.

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